theforgivenessworks is a 2 day training designed to enable participants to let go of their blocks to love and inner peace....                    

" I actually don't know what happened to me that weekend. I felt a love in that group which I had never experienced in my life. It was the most wonderful feeling. I survived for years. Now I live . ."                                          H.G.B,  London

I have a process in my life that I use regularly. It is like a precious gift and I am more grateful for it than I can possibly express. After years of searching for a way to forgive that did not depend on seeing something or someone differently to how I actually saw them, or going into a visualisation, or releasing huge emotion, or being Christian, I finally managed to co-create a truly forgiving forgiveness process. I then lived with it for a year, every day, often forgiving many times in one day, small things, seemingly silly things sometimes, but always things that triggered me slipping out of the present into an inner world which Love could not reach.

This process brought me back to Love. 

The context for my life subtly shifted from one of searching and survival to one of blessing and truth. All I had to do was choose. The most wonderful thing about that was that finally I had something to choose, something I could trust because it demanded nothing of me other than honesty and time, sometimes 2 or 3 minutes, sometimes 10, and rarely more. I had no problem with the time, because I enjoyed doing it, could do it anywhere, and often afterwards would feel as if I had been cleansed by a spiritual balm. 

After years of practising countless personal development processes, reading book after book, waiting for the next weekly group or therapy session, I finally had a way out of the perpetual cycle of trying to become someone different to the me I was at the time. What a blessed relief!

The deep magic of this forgiving is so simple; by choosing to own my truth in service of acceptance rather than change, I actually enable change. The ego would have us do anything, anything other than actually accept ourselves!

 As others are our mirrors so forgiving them is also in service of accepting us, opening us to the dance, releasing us from whatever we have placed in the way!

It took me nearly two years of 'walking with forgiveness' to create a training that I felt could do it justice.

There are now others choosing to 'walk with forgiveness’, often sharing with me amazing examples of their ‘walk’, as if they were commonplace. And I understand why this is.  Forgiveness is our gateway to home, to our true selves, to our innocence. When we arrive it feels natural and right: because it is.

I would love to give you this choice. 

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Matt Ingrams - theforgivenessworks